Thursday, June 11, 2015

The Dream Can Come True



G-d has sent us into a world in which most things are out of our control. We can’t control events and we can’t control what people think, do or say. Most people get very frustrated by this even though it’s obvious part of G-d’s plan. But the one thing that we do have complete control over is what we think and what we believe. We are given the awesome power to choose to find positive empowered meanings in literally every kind of human experience. But if we don’t learn how to search for higher meanings, our instinctive stimulus-response nervous systems will take over and we end up thinking that there isn’t any meaning to life at all, or finding the lowest meanings possible. Then we just do everything we can to avoid pain and chase after any “pleasure” we can find.

Let's take a very common issue, of couples who have been trying to have children for years, and who haven't been able to. The first thing we need to do is to look at that couple's belief system. Is there a part of them that actually believes they can't have children? Are they listening to the Evil Inclination, which is telling them to give up already, because it's never going to happen?

Or take someone who's getting older, and still hasn't met her soul-mate. She has just hit her 40th birthday, and the Evil Inclination is constantly telling her that it's all over, and it's time to pull up the drawbridge and retreat from the world. These beliefs simply aren't true, and they are extremely limiting, but so many people are stuck with this so-called “realistic” view of their world, and what could really happen in their lives. Continue here...